Set up Beacon

Grown-ups only. About two minutes.

1 · Where the messages go

In Discord: Server Settings → Integrations → Webhooks → New Webhook, choose the channel you want, then Copy Webhook URL. A webhook can only post into that one channel. It can never read anything, and you can delete it in ten seconds.

2 · Whose tablet is this

Shown on her page, and put at the front of every message so you know at a glance who it came from.

3 · Who to wake up

Without this your phone may stay silent, because most Discord servers only notify on a mention. Turn on Settings → Advanced → Developer Mode, then right-click your own name and Copy User ID. Nothing she types can ever mention anyone else.

4 · Replies

Leave both blank and Beacon works exactly as before: she sends, you get it in the chat, and nothing of hers is stored anywhere. Fill them in and she can see your answers on the tablet. It needs a small free relay you run yourself; see relay/worker.js and its README. Messages still go to the chat directly either way, so if the relay is down or wrong she can still reach you.

Hi!

Tap a button and a grown-up gets it.

Or say something else
What you sent